LIFE COACHING

LIVING AN AUTHENTIC LIFE Q: I have this feeling that I can't do many things that others can. For instance, I have little guts to try out things that are not familiar to me. I feel that I am incapable to mix around. When the task gets bigger, the feeling of fears set in, making it difficult for me to move ahead. What can I do? A: You put yourself on a crossroad every time with the battling choice of either I will, I won't, I can't or I can when there is a need to move ahead. This paralysing feeling is because, over the years, you have built too many rules, guidelines and principles. While they are good as a form of discipline, many of them have become obsolete and irrelevant, but yet you made the choice to still abide by them. So you are programmed by fear and the shortest answer to your question is to reprogramme yourself to have more freedom in your life. POWERFUL QUESTIONS. What are laws that you have built in your life? Are other people having the same laws like you? Can you find others breaking out of such laws? What are their gains? What are the losses or gains for being so obedient to these laws? What will you change? How can you live a life of greater freedom?